Oppressive Husbands & Ignorance?

Don't cruel boyfriends become cruel husbands? Pick wisely muslim women... you can't be that ignorant where you can't spot someone that is obviously cruel and oppressive... although money is the root of all evil, and if it's money that you seek first, then you must put up with the evil that comes with it, and who is to say that you are entitled to any of that money?